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		<title>Pat Flynn Rocks at Smart Passive Income &amp; You Can Too!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 10:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You ever see a cool new car -and all the sudden- you see it everywhere? That&#8217;s kind of how it is with Pat Flynn. I first came across him in an interview from John at JetSetCitizen.  After that, I saw him EVERYWHERE.  It makes you wonder&#8230; was the car there all along?  For the record, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">You ever see a cool new car -and all the sudden- you see it everywhere? That&#8217;s kind of how it is with Pat Flynn. I first came across him in an <a href="http://www.jetsetcitizen.com/make-money-online/interview-pat-flynn-200000-year-15-minutes-day/" target="_blank">interview</a> from John at <a href="http://www.jetsetcitizen.com" target="_blank">JetSetCitizen</a>.  After that, I saw him <em>EVERYWHERE</em>.  It makes you wonder&#8230; was the car there all along?  For the record, Pat has been there for quite awhile, and since I&#8217;ve realized how fantastic his information and business model is, I wanted to share it with you.  He&#8217;s got great blog tips, amazing downloads, and a fantastic newsletter (that doesn&#8217;t try to sell you anything!!).  Want to find out how he does it?  Read on!</span></span></strong></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;"><strong>Can you tell us a bit about <a href="http://smartpassiveincome.com/" target="_blank">SmartPassiveIncome.com</a>?</strong></span></span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;"><a href="http://smartpassiveincome.com/" target="_blank">SmartPassiveIncome.com</a> (or SPI for short), is a blog I started when I began to see my existing online businesses take off. On it, I discuss various online business and blogging strategies that I use and how they have either helped or didn&#8217;t help my businesses. I&#8217;m totally &#8220;tell it like is it&#8221; and transparent with everything I do, so as not to misguide anyone who may be searching for answers about how to do business online.</span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">What&#8217;s unique about what I do online and what I teach is that they primarily revolve around generating a <strong>passive income</strong>, which means they are businesses that are <em>almost</em> entirely run on auto-pilot. This kind of business model frees up valuable time in my life that I can spend doing the things I love, like hanging out with my family. I&#8217;m not trading my time for money, rather I&#8217;m investing my time now so I can see continually returns in the future. </span></span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial,sans-serif;"><strong>You have an impressive online presence and visibility, I feel like I see you everywhere.  Can you give the readers some tips on how you do this?</strong></span></span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">Sure! In fact, I just wrote a post about how I&#8217;ve <a href="http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/7-ways-to-be-everywhere-building-a-brand-online/" target="_blank">expanded my brand</a>, which gives people the illusion that I am indeed &#8220;everywhere&#8221;. </span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">To sum it up, I&#8217;ve made sure that I just didn&#8217;t stick to writing on my blog, but <strong>ventured out onto other media platforms </strong>such as YouTube, Twitter and Facebook (to name a few), and I&#8217;ll also be hosting an upcoming podcast as well. This allows me to reach people who I may not have reached otherwise, while expanding my brand and image to those who already know about me. </span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">In addition, the number one tip I can give you is to <strong>always provide fantastic content</strong>, no matter what media platform(s) you&#8217;re using. If you take a little bit of extra time to over-deliver, you&#8217;ll get noticed by people and things will start to happen from there. We can do all we want to promote our own sites, products and brand online, but what really makes a huge difference is promotion from other people (like raving fans), who have more influence upon people who you may have never reached before. It all starts with helping others, and it usually pays you back in one way or another. </span></span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial,sans-serif;"><strong>Of all of the newsletters I&#8217;ve subscribed to, yours is my favorite.  How do you do it?</strong></span></span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">I appreciate that! I&#8217;ve actually heard that from a lot of people before, and I think it&#8217;s because I don&#8217;t use my newsletter as a way to earn more money. Again, you should <strong>always strive to provide excellent, over-the-top content</strong>, and that&#8217;s exactly what I give my subscribers. No hype, no sales pitches, no aggressive marketing tactics &#8211; just written content that I would want my friends to read. When I do recommend a product, it&#8217;s because it will help my subscribers (really!), not because it will help me earn an extra dollar or two.</span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">I try to write my newsletter emails like I would write to my best friends trying to become successful online as well. I wouldn&#8217;t dare to be a weasel and try to make a buck off of them. </span></span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial,sans-serif;"><strong>I&#8217;ve found your Income Reports very helpful.  A sizable amount comes from iPhone applications.  Please share a bit more about that.</strong></span></span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">A friend and I started an iPhone app business a little over a year ago, mainly as an experiment to see if it was possible to generate passive income from building apps for the iPhone and iPod touch. We heard of some amazing success stories at the time (people making $20k a DAY with some applications), so we just had to give it a shot. </span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">I don&#8217;t understand programming language, and although my business partner does, we decided to outsource our applications because we knew we&#8217;d be able to get more done in a shorter period of time. Plus, the quality of applications would be much better than if we gave it a shot ourselves. So, we took some crazy ideas we had, found some developers, and have since built 18 applications that are now live in the app store. </span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">No, we&#8217;re not making $20k a day, but we are generating a nice, virtually passive income from Apple because of the applications that we developed. In May of 2010, <strong>we hit record earnings for a single month, nearly breaking $10k in profits.</strong> We have more apps in the works as we speak, and we&#8217;ll see where it takes us. </span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">If you&#8217;re interested in iPhone apps, I definitely recommend reading one of my more popular blog posts: </span><a href="http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/5-things-you-must-know-about-creating-your-own-iphone-apps/" target="_blank">5 Things You Should Know About Creating Your Own iPhone Apps</a></span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial,sans-serif;"><strong>One of your keys to success has been multiple income streams.  What tips do you have for the readers who want to grow this area in their business?</strong></span></span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">I realized this when I was laid off in 2008 from a 9 to 5 job that I really loved &#8211; in a career that I thought I was going to be a part of forever.</span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">The same thing can happen online, which is why <strong>we should strive to diversify</strong>. I have about <strong>15 to 18 different income streams</strong> that all work together to provide an income for myself and my family. If one or two of those go away, I&#8217;ll be fine and be able to keep my head above the water. If I only vested my time, effort and money into one particular income stream, then if for some reason it disappeared, I&#8217;d be screwed.</span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">For example, let&#8217;s say all I did was iPhone apps. We&#8217;re generating a steady income now, but what if Apple decides to come out with a new product and apps become obsolete? Or, maybe Apple get&#8217;s bought out by another company and changes their whole business model? (Which is highly unlikely, but I think you get the idea). </span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">This is why I like building <a href="http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/passive-income-streams-101/" target="_blank">passive income streams</a>, because I can work on a project until it&#8217;s automated, and then move on to the next project &#8211; thus diversifying my passive income portfolio. It&#8217;s hard to diversify a 9 to 5 job, because there are only so many hours in the day. </span></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">Luckily, the passive income business model allows me to work on multiple projects at the same time &#8211; so for example while I&#8217;m waiting for iPhone apps to be completed by our outsourced development team, I can add content to an eBook I&#8217;m writing or create videos for YouTube. Also, many things that I earn an income from are on auto-pilot, which means they don&#8217;t require very much time from me, if any at all. Again, this is thanks to the passive income business model.</span></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">Sure &#8211; I have a few things that I always tell people who are interested in doing business online, or taking their existing businesses to the next level.</span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">First, is that <strong>you should not be afraid of failure</strong>. Failure is good!, because it means you&#8217;re at least trying something out, and if it doesn&#8217;t work, you have that much more knowledge about what you should do next. I&#8217;ve learned from each and every one of my (many) failures. Looking back, I&#8217;m glad I failed because they&#8217;ve helped me get to this point in life.</span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">Secondly, is that you should <strong>never try to be perfect</strong>. So many people spend hours, days, or even years trying to make their online businesses perfect. The problem is, they spend so much time trying to make things perfect that they miss out on everything that could have happened if they had just put something out there earlier! No one cares if you&#8217;re perfect &#8211; nobody is. Get something out there now, and worry about perfection later. Like I always say, &#8220;Everyday you don&#8217;t have something for sale online is a day of potential profits lost.&#8221; </span></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="border-collapse: collapse;">Lastly, I&#8217;d just like to say that I am nobody special. I&#8217;m not an expert, and I never had any special training. So honestly, <strong><strong>anyone</strong> can become successful online too, as long as they have the passion and drive to succeed</strong>.</span></span></div>
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<p>Be in touch with Pat!</p>
<div><span style="color: #333333;">Homepage: <a href="http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/" target="_blank">http://www.smartpassiveincome.com</a></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #333333;">Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/smartpassiveincome" target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/smartpassiveincome</a></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #333333;">Twitter: <a href="http://www.twitter.com/patflynn" target="_blank">http://www.twitter.com/patflynn</a></span></div>
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		<title>Music and Life &#8211; thoughts by Alan Watts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 09:46:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[if you can&#8217;t see this video, click here The Difference Between What We are Told and Reality I really love this video and recording of Alan Watts because it so quickly encapsulates all of the emotions I&#8217;ve struggled with throughout my life.  We go into life not knowing any better, so we do what we&#8217;re [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;">I really love this video and recording of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alan_Watts" target="_blank">Alan Watts</a> because it so quickly encapsulates all of the emotions I&#8217;ve struggled with throughout my life.  We go into life not knowing any better, so we do what we&#8217;re told.  We continue along this path and at some point wake up to the reality that</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>b) all of the people we&#8217;ve followed on this path aren&#8217;t especially happy or fulfilled and</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>c) this is not our path </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><em>((in comes panic, questioning the meaning of life, feeling genuinely ripped off, confused, and directionless))</em></span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Maybe you&#8217;ve felt this disenchantment in your life?</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Personally, I&#8217;ve become disenchanted with the whole &#8216;game&#8217; of being endlessly strung along for little reward. <strong> The comfort isn&#8217;t really worth the reward in most situations</strong>, and continually trying to reach the next dangling carrot becomes less and less rewarding.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">What&#8217;s Next?  What Can We Do?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Obviously, we&#8217;re still here, so we have to do <em>something</em>, RIGHT?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>So what do we do when we become disenchanted with the &#8216;game of life&#8217;? </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">In my opinion, <strong>we rewrite it.</strong> Just like this video says, we&#8217;ve forgotten what life&#8217;s all about.  We&#8217;ve forgotten to be the composer of our own life story.  <strong>We&#8217;ve forgotten to enjoy life, and we&#8217;ve forgotten to dance</strong>.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;">Now imagine if your life was a song, and you were to begin writing the song of your life.  You would consider it a thing of beauty, a joy to create, and a gift to share with others.<br />
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>How much better would your song be?</strong></span></p>
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		<title>Want to See The World &amp; Help it too?  Interview with International Volunteer, Kirsty Henderson</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 15:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As always, bringing you inspiring stories of adventurous folks that have dared to do different.  Many of you may have wondered if you could take your business online and do good for others.  Kirsty&#8217;s living the dream of helping others while her business pretty much runs itself.  Check out her story, and amazing resources below. [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>As always, bringing you inspiring stories of adventurous folks that have dared to do different.  Many of you may have wondered if you could take your business online and do good for others.  Kirsty&#8217;s living the dream of helping others while her business pretty much runs itself.  Check out her story, and amazing resources below.</strong><br />
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>When you first thought about volunteering, what were your initial hesitations?</strong></span></h3>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I had looked into volunteering long before I ever did it and the main thing stopping me at that time was the cost. Everything I found online seemed to cost loads of money which put me off of the idea completely. Once I found Hands On Disaster Response (<a href="http://www.hodr.org/">http://www.hodr.org) (a free-to-volunteer NGO</a>) and committed to volunteering with them in Bangladesh, I remember my main concern was whether the other volunteers would all be do-gooder types. It seems strange but my only real concern was being stuck in Bangladesh with a bunch of people who were no fun!</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>How did that change after experiencing it first-hand?</strong></span></h3>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">As it turns out, most of the people I&#8217;ve met through volunteering have been just a little crazy and a blast to be around. The people I&#8217;ve met have been some of the hardest working, most talented, intelligent and creative people I&#8217;ve known. They come from all over the world, have a wide array of backgrounds and skills, and have ranged in age from 18 to 78. The thing everyone has in common is a passion for what they&#8217;re doing and it makes getting along with everyone very easy. Some of the strongest friendships I have now have come through volunteering.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>What unique experiences have you had volunteering that you otherwise wouldn&#8217;t have had just traveling?</strong></span></h3>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I&#8217;ve been invited into many people&#8217;s homes in places way off the tourist trail in Bangladesh, Indonesia, and Haiti and met and mingled with locals on a level that I&#8217;m not sure a tourist passing through could. I&#8217;ve been taken to a vodou ceremony with a Haitian friend of mine, stood on the sidelines at a football match in Haiti, been invited to weddings and funerals, had countless locals bring me snacks, tea and full meals on our breaks, and been welcomed into their communities with ceremonies and parties.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I&#8217;m sure any traveler who puts in an effort could encounter experiences like these but those travellers are rare these days with most opting to stick to the usual backpacker trail. Volunteering makes it easy to have these sort of experiences almost every day.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">As a volunteer you&#8217;re also doing good work and seeing a local person thanking you for your help with tears in their eyes isn&#8217;t something you&#8217;re likely to see as a traveler.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>How do you cover your expenses during your time volunteering abroad (flights, accommodation, food, travel)?</strong></span></h3>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">Most of the longer-term volunteering I&#8217;ve done has been with HODR who cover food and accommodation costs. HODR do disaster relief work which makes predicting their next destination impossible. I&#8217;ve been following them around for four projects from Bangladesh to Haiti, from Haiti to Indonesia and then back to Haiti after the recent earthquake. The airfares are my biggest expense but, once I get to the project, I don&#8217;t spend much at all.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I cover the cost of my flights and other expenses with money I earn online. I run a bunch of websites and get money from advertising, paid clicks and affiliate sales. When I&#8217;m volunteering and not spending much money I&#8217;m able to build my bank account back up before draining it again on another flight!</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>What types of projects have worked on?</strong></span></h3>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I&#8217;ve done all sorts of things from teaching english to building schools to running wheelbarrows. The type of work we do depends on the type of disaster. In Bangladesh we built houses and playgrounds after a cyclone. In Haiti the first time the bulk of the work was shoveling mud out of people&#8217;s homes after four hurricanes struck at once, filling the city of Gonaives with mud. In Indonesia and Haiti this time, we cleared destroyed houses from people&#8217;s foundations so they could have their space back to put a shelter.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I&#8217;ve also painted a school, built wells, learned how to work with concrete, helped frame houses, taken photos, helped set up HODR with affiliate programs, put tin onto a roof, installed wooden signboards, and on and on. The work is generally really physical day in, day out but there are usually other things to get up to besides shoveling and wheelbarrowing and the things I&#8217;ve done only touch on the many possibilities.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>How has volunteering helped you?</strong></span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I&#8217;ve gotten so much out of my time as a volunteer that it sometimes feels like I get more than I can give. I&#8217;ve learned new skills, met people from all over the world, been able to practice new languages, gotten fit, had my mind opened through amazing conversations and, I hope, become a more well-rounded person in the process.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>How have you made money online while traveling abroad?</strong></span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I started a travel website (<a href="http://www.travoholic.com/">http://www.travoholic.com</a>) way back in 2001 when few people were making money online. I worked at it on and off as a hobby for years and in 2005 I discovered Google Adsense (basically ads that I can put on my site that pay a certain amount per click). I realized then the potential for earning online and started a few more sites. I&#8217;ve currently got around 10 websites that make money through Adsense, affiliate sales (selling travel insurance, car rentals etc.) or through advertising.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">The business pretty much runs itself which leave me with a lot of time to fill with traveling or doing volunteer work. I try to work on the road but the reality is that it&#8217;s pretty tough with dodgy net connections and a lot of distractions. When I&#8217;m in the mood to get a good amount of work done, I will stop in a city I like, rent an apartment, and work hard for a while. When I want to volunteer or travel, I will do that and spend only a small amount of time maintaining my sites.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>If people are interested in volunteering abroad, what resources would you recommend? </strong></span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">Funny you should ask! I wrote an ebook called &#8216;The Underground Guide to International Volunteering&#8217; that can be downloaded from my website (<a href="http://www.nerdynomad.com/volunteering">http://www.nerdynomad.com/volunteering</a>). It&#8217;s a guide for people who want to volunteer but aren&#8217;t sure how to go about it. I talk about whether or not volunteering is for you, who would make a good volunteer, paying to volunteer, how to find free and cheap volunteering opportunities, give some practical advice and I also have a list of volunteering opportunities that have been tried and tested.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">The ebook costs $14 with $7 of every sale being donated to HODR, a cause that is obviously very close to me and one I believe in a lot. If you&#8217;ve been thinking about volunteering and aren&#8217;t sure where to start, this ebook will help you.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.nerdynomad.com/volunteering"><img class="alignleft" title="Volunteer ebook" src="http://www.nerdynomad.com/images/smallcover.jpg" alt="" width="210" height="263" /></a></span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">((Author&#8217;s note:  I&#8217;ve had the pleasure of reading this eBook and would Highly Recommend it.  It is full of great information, links, and inspiring photos.  Click on the photo to see more.))</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Got Questions for Kirsty?  Ask them in the comments section!!  Had a cool volunteering experience?  Share it Below.</strong><br />
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		<title>Digital Nomad Blog Carnival</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jun 2010 14:45:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Readers!  I&#8217;m happy to host this month&#8217;s edition of the Digital Nomad Blog Carnival.  The traveling online carnival that’s hosted at a new blog each month for readers interested in the live-anywhere, work-anywhere lifestyle. Read the carnival posts, and then check out some more Location &#8211; Lifestyle &#8211; Nomadic posts below.  These are posts [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Hello Readers!  I&#8217;m happy to host this month&#8217;s edition of the <a href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/cprof_7334.html" target="_blank">Digital Nomad Blog Carnival</a>.  The traveling online carnival that’s hosted at a new blog each month for readers interested in the live-anywhere, work-anywhere lifestyle.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Read the carnival posts, and then check out some more Location &#8211; Lifestyle &#8211; Nomadic posts below.  These are posts that I really enjoyed this month, and that others liked too.  Make sure you submit your posts for next month&#8217;s carnival by clicking <a href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/cprof_7334.html" target="_blank">here</a>.  Read on, and enjoy your life, business, and travels!</strong><br />
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Blog Carnival Submissions:</span></h3>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.nunomad.com/blog/simplicity-is-all-about-abundance-meditations-on-an-ugli-fruit/">Simplicity is All About Abundance &#8211; </a><a href="http://www.nunomad.com/blog/simplicity-is-all-about-abundance-meditations-on-an-ugli-fruit/">Meditations on an Ugli Fruit</a></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Carmen Bolanos from <a href="http://www.nunomad.com/blog">NuNomad</a> explores the theory of abundance in our lives.  Are we missing what&#8217;s right in front of us because we are looking for something else?  Read this for insights on seeing the abundance that is in your life.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://maiden-voyage-travel.com/an-encounter-with-cross-country-vagabond-sean-robinson/">An Encounter With Cross-Country Vagabond Sean Robinson</a></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Sometimes we happen upon people just when we need to.  Emily Gerson from <a href="http://maiden-voyage-travel.com">Maiden Voyage</a> had the opportunity to interview Sean Robinson who&#8217;s living the life of his dreams in a totally different way.  Check out her account of his adventures in this interview.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.technomadia.com/2010/05/state-lines-for-iphone/">Introducing: State Lines for iPhone</a></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Traveling across the country?  Cherie Ve Ard presents an app that you might find helpful.  Follow their adventures at <a href="http://www.technomadia.com">Tales from Technomadia</a>.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;">My Favorite Reads This Month:</span></h3>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://su.pr/1qJZOi" target="_blank">Should We Really Strive for a 4 Hour Workweek?</a></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Eric from <a href="http://www.my4hrworkweek.com/" target="_blank">My 4 Hour Workweek</a> explores the concept of aiming for a reduced workweek.  Is this what we really want?  Is this what we should really be working towards?  Read more to find out&#8230;</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://su.pr/AUZZeY" target="_blank">Thoughts on Art-Making &amp; Creating The Life You Want</a></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Brought to us by Cath Duncun from <a href="http://mineyourresources.com" target="_blank">Mine Your Resources</a>.  This is maybe one of the coolest videos I&#8217;ve ever seen, paired with an inspirational blog that really gets you to think about putting your creative self out there.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1Kc6kw/chrisguillebeau.com/3x5/high-points-low-points-and-the-perfect-trip/" target="_blank">High Points, Low Points, and The Perfect Trip</a></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Chris Guillebeau from <a href="http://www.chrisguillebeau.com/" target="_blank">The Art of Nonconformity</a> highlights some of the roller-coaster experiences of travel.  Is there such a thing as &#8216;the perfect trip&#8217;?  Read his opinion here.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://presentdaynomads.com/2009/08/13/location-independent/13-quotes-to-inspire-nomadic-and-location-independent-lifestyle/" target="_blank">13 Quotes to Inspire Nomadic &amp; Location Independent Lifestyle</a></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Need some inspiration?  Let&#8217;s face it, running a business remotely can be difficult.  Rasheed from <a href="http://presentdaynomads.com" target="_blank">Present Day Nomads</a> offers some great thoughts of encouragement.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Hope you have found these posts as fantastic as I have.  Thoughts?  Comments??  Leave &#8216;em if you&#8217;ve got &#8216;em!</strong><br />
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		<title>Neurological Research Links Coaching to Transformational Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jun 2010 17:03:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love it when I pick up the business section of the newspaper and something jumps off and hits me in the face.  Today I came across this article written by Coach Kriengsak Nitpattanasai who has a column in the Bangkok Post. Coaching by question and brain research Nitpatanasai gives an overview of David Rock&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I love it when I pick up the business section of the newspaper and something jumps off and hits me in the face.  Today I came across this article written by <a href="http://www.thaicoach.com/main.php?action=detail&amp;&amp;topic_id=12&amp;&amp;type=1" target="_blank">Coach Kriengsak Nitpattanasai</a> who has a column in the Bangkok Post.</strong></span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong><a href="http://www.bangkokpost.com/business/economics/38326/coaching-by-question-and-brain-research" target="_blank">Coaching by question and brain research</a></strong></span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;">Nitpatanasai gives an overview of <a href="http://www.davidrock.net/index.shtml" target="_blank">David Rock&#8217;s</a> book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060835915?tag=wwwgrowingp0c-20&amp;camp=0&amp;creative=0&amp;linkCode=as1&amp;creativeASIN=0060835915&amp;adid=0EY508F4SS298117727E&amp;">Quiet Leadership:  Help People Think Better&#8211;Don&#8217;t Tell Them What to Do.</a></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">All of my excited buttons went off simultaneously as I googled these gentleman.  Mostly, for two reasons:<br />
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">1.  Their research and experience proves the questioning methodology of coaching works (and)</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">2.  The book shows how our brains move  ideas into action&#8211;or transformational change.<br />
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<p><span style="color: #333333;">Throughout my MBA program, I was obsessed with the topic of Transformational Change (and still am!) and this is why I went into the field of Coaching / Consulting.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>What is Transformational Change?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">One definition is that it &#8220;<strong><em>requires altering and expanding the limiting mindset in which the individual (or) the organization operates</em></strong>.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">This is not just changing HOW an Individual does something, or adding a new idea to an existing set of tasks.  <strong>We are Literally CHANGING <em>THE WAY</em> PEOPLE THINK</strong>.  Changing the way they think about their lives, their limitations, and their possibilities.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Here is an example.  Everyone Knows that they Should go to the gym, but most people continue to sit on the couch.  They are tired.  They can justify it.  A nominal change might be that they take a step towards going to the gym.  Maybe they buy workout clothing or shoes, or get a gym membership.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Transformational Change</strong> occurs when the person actually changes <em>the way they think about the gym</em>, and then continually and successfully go.  Thinking has changed, therefore, results are achieved.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">As a coach, this is what we do.  We help speed up this process.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">I really enjoyed reading this article, because it brought up two critical points:</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>We cannot tell people to come to a new conclusion</strong><strong> </strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">They have to come to it themselves.  Inside all of our brains there are essentially road maps.  The roads that exist are experiences or thought patterns that we have had before.  If we want to go to a new destination (read: way of life, new way of thinking, way of living differently), <strong>our brain has to create a new road</strong>.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">When we experience an epiphany or eureka moment&#8230; <em>This Is Transformational Change</em>!  Our brains have essentially built a new road.  And, lucky for us, our mindset has changed, meaning our behaviors can change, <em>thereby changing our results</em>.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>We CAN lead people to their own conclusions</strong><strong> </strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Telling someone what to do is about as effective as me explaining to you how to get to my house in Krabi, Thailand.  You can&#8217;t even picture it, because you&#8217;ve never been here.  Changing mindsets is relatively the same thing.  By leading someone to their own conclusions by questioning, people can experience the awareness of putting a new thought into action. </span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Here&#8217;s an overview of Rock&#8217;s model:</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">Rock came up with a four-step model that has visual and audible clues to watch for when we&#8217;re trying to help people develop their own insights:</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><span style="color: #333333;">1. <strong>Awareness: </strong>When we face a problem or dilemma, our face looks a little unhappy or perplexed. Our eyes might squint slightly. We recognize we have a problem, we feel stuck. From a neuroscientific perspective, we have various mental maps in conflict. They have competing values, competing demand for resources, and the brain has not yet worked out how to resolve this conflict by creating a new metamap or by reconfiguring our existing maps.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><span style="color: #333333;">2. <strong>Reflection:</strong> Your face changes. Most people look up, or slightly up and across, and have a dazed look on their face. Their forehead might tense up as they think more deeply. Nearly everyone becomes silent for a moment.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><span style="color: #333333;">3.<strong> Illumination: </strong>There&#8217;s a rush of energy if it&#8217;s big idea, like Archimedes&#8217; &#8220;eureka&#8221; moment.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><span style="color: #333333;">4. <strong>Motivation: </strong>People&#8217;s eye movements show they are ready for action.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">((This process is the most gratifying part of my job&#8230; watching the transformational change take place by the look on someone&#8217;s face.))</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Coaching, in my view, isn&#8217;t about coming in and telling someone what to do.  It is about meeting someone where they are at and giving them the skills they need to break through old ideas and limiting behaviors&#8211; thereby helping them to pave new roads to unlimited success.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Thoughts?</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060835915?tag=wwwgrowingp0c-20&amp;camp=0&amp;creative=0&amp;linkCode=as1&amp;creativeASIN=0060835915&amp;adid=0EY508F4SS298117727E&amp;"><img src="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/41mbXEVAdHL._SL110_.jpg" alt="" /></a></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">(Here&#8217;s a <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060835915?tag=wwwgrowingp0c-20&amp;camp=0&amp;creative=0&amp;linkCode=as1&amp;creativeASIN=0060835915&amp;adid=0EY508F4SS298117727E&amp;">link to the book</a> if you want to check it out&#8230;)</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 14:43:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Quite Possibly the Best Poem I&#8217;ve Ever Read&#8230; IF by Rudyard Kipling 1865 &#8211; 1936 If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #333333;">Quite Possibly the Best Poem I&#8217;ve Ever Read&#8230;</span></p>
<h3 style="padding-left: 150px;"><span style="color: #333333;">IF</span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 150px;"><span style="color: #333333;">by </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 120px;"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rudyard_Kipling" target="_blank"><span style="color: #333333;">Rudyard Kipling</span></a></p>
<p style="padding-left: 120px;"><span style="color: #333333;"> 1865 &#8211; 1936<br />
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can keep your head when all about you</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">But make allowance for their doubting too;</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Or being lied about, don&#8217;t deal in lies,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Or being hated don&#8217;t give way to hating,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And yet don&#8217;t look too good, nor talk too wise:</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><br />
</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can dream&#8211;and not make your dreams your master;</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can think&#8211;and not make thoughts your aim,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And treat those two impostors just the same;</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can bear to hear the truth you&#8217;ve spoken</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And stoop and build &#8216;em up with worn-out tools:</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><br />
</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can make one heap of all your winnings </span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And lose, and start again at your beginnings</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And never breathe a word about your loss;</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">To serve your turn long after they are gone,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And so hold on when there is nothing in you</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Except the Will which says to them: &#8216;Hold on!&#8221;</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><br />
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Or walk with Kings&#8211;nor lose the common touch,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If all men count with you, but none too much;</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">If you can fill the unforgiving minute</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">With sixty seconds&#8217; worth of distance run,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Yours is the Earth and everything that&#8217;s in it,</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="color: #333333;">And&#8211;Which is more&#8211;you&#8217;ll be a Man, my son!</span></strong></p>
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		<title>Taking Care of Yourself Without the Resentment</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 02:46:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the past several months, I&#8217;ve noticed a sneaky-little-emotion called Resentment.  It tends to creep in and create unproductive thoughts, stopping me in my forward momentum, and keeps me from enjoying moments in life.  Maybe you have experienced similar areas of resistance in your life? Resenting work One major personal realization I’ve made lately is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Over the past several months, I&#8217;ve noticed a sneaky-little-emotion called Resentment.  It tends to creep in and create unproductive thoughts, stopping me in my forward momentum, and keeps me from enjoying moments in life.  Maybe you have experienced similar areas of resistance in your life?</strong></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Resenting work</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">One major personal realization I’ve made lately is around my attitude of work.  My whole life, I’ve repelled the idea of work.  This started at an early age for me.  Growing up with a father as a business owner, I was working full time at age 14.  This was during he summers while everyone else was sitting at the pool talking about boys.  I worked to support myself through high school, and worked and did sports teams in college. <strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>It seemed like there was always work to be done, and never any time for me!</strong> </span> <span style="color: #333333;"><strong>While my dad had all kinds of reasons why this was a good thing for me, I resented it.</strong> </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">I&#8217;m sure it was valuable experience, and did get me further, faster, but it also left me feeling quite strange.  <strong>Why were all these other kids getting to enjoy life, and have time off, and I was having to work so hard (as a child) to just live???</strong> </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Looking at it now, <strong>I think this left me feeling unloved and like something was wrong with me</strong>.  Winning approval from my father was like trying to impress a statue.  No matter what I did or how hard I tried, there was no reaction.  <strong>Somehow, in the end, I lumped all of these feelings of inadequacy into  a pretty unhealthy attitude about having to take care of myself.  <em>I had to take care of myself, because nobody else would.</em></strong></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Resenting gender roles</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Gender roles can become a confusing issue when taking care of ourselves.  In many families, it is modeled that the male is more of the dominant provider while the woman tends to be more domestic and takes care of the family. <strong> Seeing this modeling growing up, I pretty much expected that at some point there would be a man in my life that would earn more than me and take care of things.</strong> (And I, in turn, would take care of him, the house, and domestics.)</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I have always resented being a female. I don&#8217;t want the traditional life of husband, house, children,</strong> but on the flip-side, it seems so difficult to break into the work-world and be taken seriously by men. </span> <span style="color: #333333;"><em>It seems like males always get the break, the better jobs, and the better salaries.</em> </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Even in business, I feel I&#8217;ve had to prove myself twice as hard because I am a female.  I would think I&#8217;d be going to meet with a new client, and they just wanted to date me. <strong>Oftentimes I&#8217;ve been cast off as &#8220;just a girl&#8221; and once was asked by a former boss &#8220;Can&#8217;t you just sit there and look pretty?!?&#8221;</strong> </span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Resisting authority</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Ever since I started teaching in Thailand, I&#8217;ve had to face massive negative thoughts and resistance.  From my alarm clock, to my boss, to my thoughts in my head, I was pretty much cursing the world until about noon each day.</strong> This went on for about the first three months.  Then, from a series of trying to just work through it and stop resisting, I was able to let it go and move past it.  It was surprising and shocking for me to realize that I could be in such a peaceful place for the past five years (not having to deal with an alarm or boss), but <strong>the second I put myself in a position of a subordinate, <em>I was completely freaking out!</em></strong> </span> <strong></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">I think I&#8217;ve never really had a &#8220;real job&#8221; with regular hours or bosses or expectations because it hit all my buttons from working as a kid. </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Once something &#8220;went wrong&#8221; or someone pissed me off, I would quit.  And then it was over.</span></strong> <span style="color: #333333;">I think because I liked the &#8216;re-creating my life&#8217; part, I saw the next thing as a new adventure, but still never really landed on anything till I started my business.  It has been a struggle, to say the least, to get it going and running from abroad&#8230;  and I am trying to make decisions that will help me stay on here longer.  <strong>Teaching is a great way to get a work permit and earn some extra money while I build my business up over the next year.  But it has helped me to realize the importance of accepting authority (rather than avoiding it) and realizing that the resisting it really has only gotten in my own way.</strong> </span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Resisting &#8220;what is&#8221;</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">I think I&#8217;ve focused most of my life on &#8220;Trying to create the perfect situation&#8221;.  <strong>Recently I was hit with the brick on my head that it NOT All About Creating the Perfect Situation, but it is also about Accepting What Is.</strong> Maybe it is about a 50/ 50 split. </span> <span style="color: #333333;">You can partly create an ideal situation, but no situation is completely ideal.  We all have to learn to just go along with life and handle our emotions as they come up. <strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Things are going to be unpredictable, hard, frustrating, annoying, not make sense, and piss you off.</strong> I think part of taking care of yourself is learning how to handle yourself in these situations.  By becoming stronger and dealing with difficult situations <em>(rather than avoiding them)</em>, you are actually taking better care of yourself.</span> <span style="color: #333333;">This was a BIG BIG BIG realization for me because it meant<strong> I don&#8217;t have to keep hopping around the globe re-creating some ideal scenario and then giving up (rather quickly) when it doesn&#8217;t &#8220;work out&#8221;. </strong> If I look back, honestly, I&#8217;ve been doing that since I was 16.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Life beyond resentment</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">By no means have I mastered this one yet, but what I&#8217;ve found helpful so far is to <strong>Observe the Resentment. </strong>This has been an effective exercise in helping me to see past the illusions I&#8217;m creating, and look deeper at the root cause.  Mostly, I&#8217;ve found out that these emotions fade, and I can be more enjoyable and productive if I face my resistance straight on.  <strong>When I feel my teeth clenching, my body tensing, and my head on overdrive repeating &#8220;I HAVE GOT TO GET OUT OF HERE&#8221;, I now meet it with a simple question&#8230;   <em>Why?</em></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">I continue to drill down and nearly every answer results in some sort of anxiety rooted in my childhood work situation.  <strong>Maybe I&#8217;m crazy sitting there and talking to myself like a maniac, but, honestly, it works. </strong>I continue to ask myself why I am feeling (anxious, nervous, trapped, annoyed) and more times than not, I get some form of:  because that&#8217;s what I felt as a kid and I hated it.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>But why should what I felt as a child get in the way of my success as an adult?</strong><br />
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<p>Simply put, If I want to get beyond it, I have got to get over it. Letting go of old hurt and resistance frees up mental space and allows us to grow, so that&#8217;s what I&#8217;m going to do. <strong>I need to get over the resentment, because there is life beyond it.</strong></p>
<p><strong>That said, what are the areas of resistance in your life?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Are you holding on to any resentment that is keeping you stuck?</strong></p>
<p>Thanks for your comments!!</p>
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		<title>What ARE You THINKING?  How to improve your mindset and your quality of life!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:05:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.” William James There’s a lot of talk these days about the Law of Attraction.  Many books are out there discussing how to focus your thoughts and get what you want by thinking positive thoughts.  More importantly than [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>“Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.”</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>William James</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>There’s a lot of talk these days about the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_Attraction" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Law of Attraction</span></a>.  Many books are out there discussing how to focus your thoughts and get what you want by thinking positive thoughts.  More importantly than just focusing on the stuff that you want, I believe that the quality of our life comes from the quality of our thoughts.  It is as simple as this:  if you spend the bulk of your day having pleasant thoughts, you will have a good day.  On the contrary, if you have miserable thoughts, your day will suck.  We all have moments of getting caught up in the drama of our lives, so here are some quick tips of things I’ve learned to begin to change your thinking.</strong></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Observing Your Thoughts</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Our minds are like any environment.  The conditions need to be right for good ideas to grow.  Thoughts grow from having an open mind and ‘can do’ attitude. <strong> Try to observe the thoughts you have and notice what patterns come up. </strong> If it is too difficult at first to notice your thinking, listen to the words you say about different topics.  Are you closing down to people, experiences, or certain areas of your life?  What areas do you find yourself saying the words “I can’t”?  <strong>Get to know the areas of your life that you seem defensive about.  Where are your buttons pushed, and by whom?</strong></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Noticing Patterns</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Once you have begun to notice your thoughts, the next step is to <strong>observe any patterns that go along with them</strong>.  Because every action has an equal and opposite reaction, see what you are reacting to.  Patterns of behavior are more predictable than you think.  Take a moment to consider your reactions to the following questions:</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">When things go “wrong” what do I do?</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">What people seem to get under my skin?  Why?</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">What areas of my life seem to always “go wrong”?</span></strong></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Linking Your Thinking to your Feelings</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">A great indicator of our thinking is our feelings.  If we are feeling frustrated, upset, or just having an off day, it is worth exploring our thought processes.  <strong>When we take time to get to know our own emotional reactions, we can learn more about ourselves and where we are staying stuck. </strong> Rather than responding to unfavorable situations and escalating the tension, try to remain calm, and explore your emotional reaction later during quiet time.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">I recently had a situation where a friend really upset me.  I have been reading three different books about mind training and decided to try to do what they said.  I remained calm, focused on my breathing, and tried to not take it personally.  Later, I spent quite a bit of time going through the scenario in my head.  <strong>Rather than asking myself “Why did they say that to me?” I asked myself, “Why am I so reactive to that comment?”</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">I continued to ask questions and dig deeper until I found the source of the pain.  I realized I was being reactive to a comment because it made me feel devalued.  Because I had a strong reaction to males making me feel this way growing up, I experienced pain.  I spent time working through these older issues and realized what my friend had actually given me was a gift.  <strong>I had an opportunity to realize an old pattern, find the root cause, and forgive an old situation I had been holding onto for years!</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Many of us have these Reactive Filters.  We react strongly, or overreact to people in situations that remind us of old hurts.  We try to justify our own behavior by lashing out or making the situation worse.  We do have the choice to turn hurtful situations into learning opportunities.  We can sit uncomfortably through moments and find the source later.  We can notice how these reactive behaviors are keeping us stuck and determine to work through them.  <strong>Next time you feel you are getting your buttons pushed, look deeper to see where the root of this thought process is coming from, and see if you can reprogram your old pattern.</strong><br />
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Reprogramming our Thoughts for Better Results</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">The less reactive we are, the less drama that surrounds our lives.  When we can go into our own lives and take responsibility for our reactions, we free up space for better patterns.  By reprogramming our thoughts, we improve the quality of our lives.  We learn how to find more enjoyable thoughts to focus on throughout the day.  And, the better our thoughts, the happier our days.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>“The calm man, having learned how to govern himself, knows how to adapt himself to others; and they, in turn, reverence his spiritual strength, and feel that they can learn of him and rely upon him.  The more tranquil a man becomes, the greater is his success, his influence, his power for good.”</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>-James Allen, <em>As a Man Thinketh</em></strong></span></p>
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		<title>Learning From Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 07:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As many of you know I&#8217;ve taken up teaching in Thailand.  I had nearly ten months of pure vacation and wanted to give back something more to the community.  Also, after multiple visa fiascos, some soul searching, and deciding that I want to stay on in this country, I&#8217;ve found it most useful to have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>As many of you know I&#8217;ve taken up teaching in Thailand.  I had nearly ten months of pure vacation and wanted to give back something more to the community.  Also, after multiple visa fiascos, some soul searching, and deciding that I want to stay on in this country, I&#8217;ve found it <em>most useful</em> to have a work permit. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">The short of it is that if you decide to work in a country, <strong>you can set up and be more productive</strong>.  My hope was that by committing to a schedule, I would actually get <strong><em>More work done</em></strong>.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Could it be true?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">After four months, I would say Absolutely!  The high-schools here require you to teach about <strong>four hours a day</strong>.  Because I am now on a routine schedule (after a year of lazing about), <strong>I am getting up and getting shit done</strong>.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I love the interaction with the kids, have learned far more about the culture, and find myself continually learning from children.</strong></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Travel Anywhere&#8230;</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">For their midterm assignment, I decided to give them a trip.  <strong>They could go anywhere in the world, bring any amount of money, stay as long as they liked, and study anything while they were there.  The response was amazing.</strong> I actually got kids to write paragraphs that had barely been constructing sentences.  But, there were also some ways they used the language that made me laugh or brought tears to my eyes.  It also gave me a whole new appreciation for travel, and I hope these snippets will encourage you too.  I haven&#8217;t corrected the English or grammar intentionally, so enjoy!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>When given the assignment, Where will you go, How much money will you bring, What will you do, What will you learn&#8230; there were some very interesting responses&#8230;</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I will learn about staying alive.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I will need a lot of money.  I will drink beer every day.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I will enjoy the funny land.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I will learn about culture and experiences that I can&#8217;t find in the class.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>From the travel, I will have been taught about How do I stay Exciting.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I will go to New Zeland.  I would like to stay with nature and meet sheep.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Oversea can make me have grown up and live in the world with myself.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I will need somewhere for my relaxation.  I would like to touch the wave sound.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>The weather will be rainy in July but for me no problem.  This is life.<br />
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;">In The New Year&#8230;</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #333333;">Chinese New Year is this weekend.  We put together a wishing tree, full of their wishes, and I wanted to let you know&#8230; <strong>wherever you are in the world, that YOU are a part of these kid&#8217;s wishes</strong>.  Here are some below:</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I wish that everyone in the world have good health and a perfect life.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I wish everybody good and hope they can have fun.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>and from me&#8230; I wish that everyone can be HAPPY!</strong></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Since it is the New Year, What are Your Travel Plans?  Where will you go?  What will you do?  What do you hope to learn?</strong></span></p>
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		<title>Interview with Robin Esrock: Travel Journalist, Blogger &amp; TV Star of Word Travels</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 11:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brooke Ferguson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve ever dreamed of becoming a professional globe-trotter and getting paid to see the world, read on.  I&#8217;m really excited to share Robin Esrock&#8217;s story and how he went from traveling and blogging to getting published and then hosting a major travel show on television.  I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll find this success story as inspirational [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>If you&#8217;ve ever dreamed of becoming a professional globe-trotter and getting paid to see the world, read on.  I&#8217;m really excited to share Robin Esrock&#8217;s story and how he went from traveling and blogging to getting published and then hosting a major travel show on television.  I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll find this success story as inspirational as I have&#8230;</strong></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>You have a very exciting story about turning a seemingly unfortunate event into something positive.  Please share with the readers what got you started on your adventures traveling around the world.</strong></span></h3>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong> </strong>I became a travel writer by accident, literally.  A car ran an intersection and piled into my bike, breaking my kneecap. I got $20,000 from insurance, looked around, and thought, <strong>what the hell am I doing with my life?   So I quit my job, packed things in storage, and bought a round-the-world ticket to visit every country I&#8217;d ever dreamed of seeing. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I started a blog called <a href="www.moderngonzo.com" target="_blank">Modern Gonzo</a>, in tribute to one of my favorite writers Hunter S Thompson, and set off to see, and share, the world.   This led to a column for the local newspaper, and 12 months and 24 countries later, I returned home to find I&#8217;d somehow become a popular travel writer.   Assignments and other newspapers followed &#8211; the Chicago Tribune, South China Morning Post, Sydney Morning Herald.  All the while, I&#8217;m jet-setting around the world, but sleeping on couches because hardly anyone makes a living solely as a travel writer.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;">I thought this would be a neat idea for a TV show, and brought in fellow travel writer Julia Dimon.   Stars aligned, Word Travels (<a href="http://wordtravels.tv/" target="_blank">wordtravels.tv</a>) got picked up by a production company, then a network in Canada, then National Geographic worldwide.  <strong>Five years since that accident, I&#8217;ve been to nearly 50 countries (about 90 in total from previous travels), am seen on four continents on TV, and write for millions of readers.   It has been, I admit it, quite the trip.</strong></span><span style="color: #333333;"><strong> </strong></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>How were you able to go from blogging to becoming a travel journalist?</strong></span></h3>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong> </strong>I pitched a newspaper and got lucky.  <strong>Even today, with all my success, I still get about a 90% rejection rate.  Travel writing is not for the thin-skinned!</strong> Outlets are drying up, budgets are being slashed.  But the travel bug is nothing if not persistent, and I love writing.  My blog was always, and to some degree still is, intended to remind myself just how crazy my life is.   It&#8217;s a diary, a travelogue, a how-to-guide and a comedy.   People responded to the writing, and when one newspaper bought it, I thought, hey, maybe another one will too!   I&#8217;ve now been published in over a dozen major newspapers and magazines, but my first love is and always will be my blog, where I don&#8217;t have to worry about tone and word count, and I can just be as creative and batshit crazy as I want to be. </span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Can you share some tips with other bloggers on how to get their writing published?</strong></span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>People ask me all the time &#8211; how do I become a travel writer?  It&#8217;s really quite simple.   Travel.  And then, write. </strong></span> You&#8217;d be amazed at how many people don&#8217;t travel and want to be a travel writer, or don&#8217;t write and want to be a travel writer.   If you keep a journal, diary or blog, you&#8217;re a travel writer, pure and simple.  Getting published and making a living &#8211; well, that&#8217;s another story.</p>
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<li><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Start with a local newspaper </strong>- a community paper, a newsletter, an outlet that might be interested in YOUR perspective.   We&#8217;ve heard about China.  What is it about YOUR trip to China that makes us want to read your story?   Maybe that you live in our neighborhood, go to the same school, are someone we can relate to?</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Research your target:</strong> What kind of publication is it?  Don&#8217;t pitch them adventure when they feature hotels and restaurants.   An editor once told me she gets 500 pitches a week.  She has budget for 2.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Make your pitch stand out</strong>, to the point, informative and entertaining.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>And when you&#8217;re ready to give up with frustration, that&#8217;s when you should really get serious about pitching.</strong></span></li>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong> </strong></span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>You&#8217;ve mentioned in another interview that &#8220;Travel writing is a lifestyle, not a living&#8221;.  Where do you currently spend the bulk of your time?</strong></span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>I&#8217;ve been on the road at least 6 months a year for the last 5 years. </strong>So I guess I spend the bulk of my time in airports, which are not bad as far as offices go.  I mean to say that you shouldn&#8217;t expect to get rich as a travel writer.   Competition is so fierce that rates are notoriously low.   It&#8217;s a lifestyle choice, to live out of a backpack, in hotels, at airports.    If you want to make a living, drive a nice car and surround yourself with nice things, consider something corporate and take your holidays at the end of the year.   On the other hand, <strong>there&#8217;s two ways to get rich:  Make more&#8230;or desire less. </strong> On the other, other hand, I have a wealth of experience, but experience never paid the rent.   It&#8217;s a compromise, but for those who love to travel, it&#8217;s an easy compromise to make.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Since you&#8217;ve started your travel series, has your view of travel changed?</strong></span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>We just wrapped our third and final season, which took us to 36 countries on 6 continents.</strong> Traveling with a TV crew is a completely different beast than traveling as a writer on assignment, or traveling as an adventurous backpacker.  We have crazy schedules, insane hours, permit issues, filming challenges, sound, budgets, transport, gear worries.</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Word Travels has taken me to some of the most incredible landscapes (Sri Lanka, Tunisia, Ethiopia) to do some of the most incredible things (heli-yoga, cat-boarding, the world&#8217;s highest bungy jump!</strong>), but it&#8217;s been hard work, and at the end of the day, we all wanted to make an intelligent, inspiring travel series that would stand out amongst the glut of yuck on TV, and we worked damn hard to make it so.   We wanted to be fair to each country, its people and culture, and time would always be a challenge.  I&#8217;d love to return to every place I&#8217;ve been with more time and more money, but than again, I could say the same for life in general.  <strong>There&#8217;s no wrong or right way to travel.</strong> Just the opportunities we get to see the world, and what we make of them.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong> </strong></span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>What words of inspiration would you offer to aspiring travel writers?</strong></span></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong> </strong></span><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Travel first.  Get your ass out there, you need the inspiration, and don&#8217;t worry, it&#8217;s sure to follow.</strong> Be disciplined &#8211; keep up that blog, set a regular time and place to focus on it and give it your best effort.  Choose someone you know as your audience &#8211; your mother, your friends, your self in 40 years.   And write for them, capture everything you see, everything you feel. </span></p>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Take lots of photos</strong> &#8211; some of them will be good enough for publication.  Package a story into something that fits the publication, stands out from the crowd, is honest, authentic, and pure to your experience.  Source the right publication that fits your story, and pitch away.   Persistence pays off, and let nobody tell you your dreams can&#8217;t come true.    <strong>Five years ago I had a desk job and dreamed of seeing the world.  Amazing things do happen.  Believe it.</strong></span></div>
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<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Thanks, Robin, for a fantastic interview!! </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>Connect with Robin</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.moderngonzo.com/" target="_blank">www.moderngonzo.com</a> &#8211; Robin&#8217;s pioneering travel blog, with stories, video, photos and tips from over 50 countries.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.wordtravels.tv/" target="_blank">www.wordtravels.tv</a> &#8211; the OLN/CityTV/Nat Geo Adventure series that follows the lives of two working travel writers.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/moderngonzo" target="_blank">www.youtube.com/moderngonzo</a> &#8211; hilarious self-edited clips from Robin&#8217;s adventures</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333333;"><a href="http://www.twitter.com/robinesrock" target="_blank">www.twitter.com/robinesrock</a> &#8211; Follow Robin&#8217;s adventures on Twitter</span></p>
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